Women in today’s society have a complex construction, and to try to unravel this complexity is unnecessary. These are some of the love blind things in women that men love and agonize over.
Looking too far into this will lead to long-term confusion. (For proof see what happened to Brad Pitt in Twelve Monkeys. Or Jenifer Aniston’s old Boyfriend Vince Vaugh in the film Swingers!)
Brad Pitt. Confused
This is the perilous fate of all men who feel brave enough to open this Pandora’s box of turmoil.
What is clear and needs to also be worked on, is how to communicate in a more efficient manner. The root of male logic is logic.
What does she mean? How can I understand in the most efficient use of time and without getting “hit”!
This will lead to a life of simple truths that have a clear and rational selection of logical assumptions. Thus equaling efficiency of communication.
Relationships in the past were complex but the roles were simpler. Defined by standard procedures of predestined male sacrifice and selfishness, for example-
“I give her what she wants then I can move on to my own private agenda!”
This was the male mistake. Guys learn this please. Never begin on a road that you cannot continue. (This applies to many situations and opportunities. There will be a chapter devoted to this later, but for now just a short note.)
It will end in disaster. By giving her what she wants ….. is a immediate way to become imprisoned in this condition. Keep a clear line open on the point of compromise.
This is a short-term agreement and is not rule bound to become the “New Norm”.